I need my solitude. Without it, I'm groundless.
A worldly dream once took it away. We talk of presence and sharing as inspiration, but sometimes that very sophistication we are told to desire is the bringer of disaster. An incurable tumor fermented in the heart. At first, I just wanted to dance, and now I can expect my talent to raise me high above the clouds in a summer day? What they don't understand: it is more of a journey lived than a talent capitalised.
And how can I know what I've been through, how I've felt, and who I've loved if I am not alone? Yet even memory has her flaws: empty space where before there was a surface and a unity, like the stretch of a blooming rose petal. You sense the soft hidden layers, but they are gone the moment you let loose of your grip. The names and faces filmed in the memory would have told me where I'd been and how much I've grown out of my former self, they were a cosmic map and a travel diary.
Even the sutblest sound awakes thought in solitude. Recognition dawns, one sense can enliven another. A voice returns to you from beyond the loss and the memory. A freed body, which takes its notes differently, sequences them in alien geometries, a code, but not the kind you crack, more like the kind you have written within you without knowing, the complex infinities of you cell's DNA.
The order of the spontaneous world-- its harmonies and echoes, its effortless beauties --is its own melody. It sings in the graceful, clear bell of reveal. There is an illumination when one only sits with oneself. An unfolding. Whether or not you feel it, it is your song and it will be sung. The tones will resonate. The truth will glow and burn.
Start over. Reset. Start over. Reset.
I'll get myself some rest. What else can I do? I've done more to conceal than to reveal.
Those quiet gazes, as I understand them, will take their place on the next opening page.
The Poet’s Diary
It has been a while since I last posted and many things have happened as if nothing has ever happened. When the events are jagged and packed together, we simply cannot name them. But I will give it a try…. What happened were:
1. Vacation! UC campuses have been on strike and I am free of TA duty. Instead of showing up on the picket line, I happily fled to Napa for some quiet “me -time”, away from all the dramas so that I could live with the lovely Canadian geese and summery lake for a while. As I strolled around the valley, I was amazed by how close those adorable grapevines were right next to me. That sensation brought my memory back to my childhood, when I was a child who couldn’t digest any fruit except grapes. I consoled myself that there must have been a good reason for that peculiar diet. Looks like I was right?!๐
2. The Love Letter! I screened my autobiographical dance film, The Love Letter (2024 version), at PFS (Performance Studies) 2024 Symposium. The Love Letter, which is a multi-media and multi-disciplinary experiment on autobiographical dance-making, has been my ongoing project spinning around for some years now. Some of the readers here might have viewed the 2022 version of The Love Letter I posted on my blog before. I made some significant changes to the short film for the 2024 version and the audiences’ responses were…(well, mixed feelings?). While a few female colleagues questioned how I felt about putting my own intimate life story out there for the public to see, others told me it was immensely touching (a man confessed to me that he almost cried ๐ฌ). Well, whatever the reactions, questions, or confrontations from the audiences, I will be still adventure on my artistic vision for The Love Letter. In fact, I am seeking collaborators. If you are interested in joining the fun, check out the details on my upcoming new professional website ๐.
3. New Website! Finally, after much inner struggles, I am building my professional website, for the purpose of sharing, conversing, and academic networking in a digital space. The reason that I struggled so much to build this website was, in fact, rather hilarious to many of my colleagues (but a serious matter to me). Oh, I was so worried about disclosing my real name, haha! Although I am Annabel in real life for sure, I’ve been using a series of pseudonym surnames for a good portion of my life. Only the official records and academic websites “know” my real surname. Isn’t it a funny excuse to refuse to set up one’s professional profile and connect with one’s studied field ๐ for so many years? Well, you never know what’s in the girl’s mind…. Anyway, stay tuned and I will update you on my new coming blog ๐!
Hope you’ve been blessed out and sketching your own funs for the summer, dear friends and readers! ๐
Sending hugs and cheers,
Annabel ๐ท
I love your writings on solitude, so elegantly and beautifully written. I look forward to seeing your new blog ๐ .
Like yourself I never used my name when I first made my blog (for a few years actually!). In my case I didn’t want anyone I knew reading it haha, although I don’t care so much now.
Anyways I hope you are doing well and are enjoying summer time heading out your way.
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Thank you so much, my friend! I appreciate you! ๐๐
Looks like we went through the same thing. I guess there are some who read my blog actually had known me in person ๐ and I’m grateful they care that much to find me here.
And you too, enjoy your winter?! How nice! ๐
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Yes it is the start of winter here. I’m not a big fan of winter in NZ as it’s cold and damp but not cold enough to enjoy snow haha (unless you go to the mountains). I did have a nice getaway last weekend though ๐ .
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Wonderful you had a getaway from the cold! I want a getaway from the heat weave here ๐ฅต,haha.
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Oh heat waves are no good! I’m fortunate our country doesn’t have them often.
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Lucky you ๐คช
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Napa is a beautiful place to spend some quiet time. I am so happy for you and celebrate all that you are accomplishing and discovering. I am in no rush to click away from your post as you know I like to take my time with your words. Best wishes with your professional website. That is a wonderful plan, given your projects and goals. ๐๐ป Warm regards to you talented Annabel. ๐๐ท
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You are one most generous and gorgeous lady walking on earth, dear Michele! ๐I appreciate you immensely! ๐ทHugs to you!
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Thank you beautiful, gifted dancer. Hugs to you too, angel Annabel. ๐
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I am glad to see your new post Annabel! the last two lines in your prose were especially brillant and moving to me! “I’ve done more to conceal than reveal” โฆ what a juxtaposition๐๐!
Napa looks like a beautiful place to unwind for the summer! Happy to see the bold and beautiful steps in your journey with screening your film and your upcoming website. I shall be wishing you all the best and cheering you on from this side of the world ๐ฅณ๐ฅณ Soar ever higher my friend ๐
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Oh, you are one kindest gentleman here, Nelson! Thank you so much for this beautiful and encouraging comment! ๐ฅ๐
I’m almost done with the basic set-up of the website. It will be very Annabel and you will see to it, haha! ๐ Cheers to a good life! ๐ฅ
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๐ My many comments (most of which will be of admiration I’m sure ๐) and I shall see to it ๐
cheers my friend, to a good life โโ๐
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Cheers back to you, and thank you, Nelson! ๐ป Enjoy your good life in Kenya! ๐ฅณ๐ต. What a place of heaven for coffee and teas!
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What beautifully put and eloquently said thoughts! Solitude truly is a thing of rare beauty. Loving your thoughts too on concealing more than revealing. Food for thought! โค
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Thank you so much for your beautiful comment, dear Layla! Delighted to have you here! ๐ And yes, solitude is a rare beauty and nowadays, a luxury.
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